Day 24 – “LOVE, LIVE AND LEARN” 

Welcome to a day that has a potential to bring change in your life. Remember to read this message out loud and read only this message for the day. You inspire for you to be inspired.

Remember: #ItsPossibleBecauseItsDoable

I wrote this message in February, in the month of love but it is still relevant even today. I would like to encourage you to continue to love, any time of the year. However, you need to know how to love, who to love, when to love, why you love and where to love. A lot of people hate the word LOVE because they don’t understand it, they underestimate it, and they misuse it. I have realized this with many people I encountered, including my clients.

We have been blinded by our own confusion when it comes to love. When we are in love, we are sometimes like someone who is intrigued by the beautiful orange fruits that come from the orange tree yet overlook the tree itself. It is the same thing with us, we forget that it is God who is the author of love. Through our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, God reveals His true nature and character in love. Let us pause and remember that love is a divine gift from our Heavenly Father. Let His perfect love drives out any fear or confusion we may have; and, in our trusting state, comprehend the grace and mercy He has so freely revealed.

Understanding the power of love is essential. When, how, why, who, and where are all factors to consider. Ensure you have the strong conviction of why you love – take into account the person and the place it stems from. Love can be a demanding emotion, and if you take the time to really assess your stance, you will be less likely to be hurt. Cultivating an appreciation for love in its vast complexity will set you up for success. Don’t be afraid to make decisions that allow love to thrive.

When you’re in love, don’t forget to live your life – to be yourself! Life is too short to compromise on who you are, and what makes you happiest. While it’s important to nurture and maintain relationships, remember it’s not an excuse to fully become someone else to keep the other person happy. Relationships can fail, if only one of you is present – if your relationship feels like a death sentence, it’s time to take a step back before it’s too late.

Love is a beautiful but complicated emotion. It can lead us in amazing directions when handled with care. I’m sorry to that you may have experienced hurts in the name of love. But through our mistakes, we learn and grow – so don’t be too hard on yourself. People can be cruel, jealous, and selfish, but they can also be loving. Believe in the beauty of love, and don’t forget that at its heart, it has the potential to change everything – sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse. Learn these lessons and protect your heart from harm.

Plan of Action:

1. Develop an openness to loving yourself and others.

2. Reflect on past experiences and feelings around love.

3. Analyse why you choose to love, who you love and when/where to love.

4. Reevaluate your stance on love and be more present in present moments.

5. Rely on God and deepen understanding of His perfect love.

6. Learn to accept love while being mindful of your own emotional boundaries.

7. Believe in the beauty of love while protecting yourself from harm.

8. Cultivate an appreciation of love and take responsibility for your own decisions.

Remember:

#ItsPossibleBecauseItsDoable

#KungenzekaNgobaKuyenzeka