Day 8 – “IT’S NOT EVERYONE WITH YOU THAT IS FOR YOU”  

Welcome to a day that has a potential to bring change in your life. Remember to read this message out loud and read only this message for the day. You inspire for you to be inspired.

Remember: #ItsPossibleBecauseItsDoable

I believe we have both been duped into believing that everyone who smiles, shakes our hands, listens to our troubles, eats with us and visits us in the hospital can be trusted. It is understandable to be taken in by appearances; these people appear to be so genuine and kind-hearted. They are convincing in everything they say and do, making it difficult to spot potential ulterior motives. They go out of their way to convey their support, as though they really do care about us – but in reality, this could merely be a ploy to get closer and gain in-depth knowledge of our lives.

It can be disheartening to find out that those closest to you are the ones trying to drag you down. They may be a family member, a friend at church, or a teacher, pastor, or even a partner. It may be difficult, but it is important to remember that these individuals try to pull you down only because they believe that doing so will bring them success. The best way to counteract this is to not give it a second thought. People who resort to such tactics to make themselves feel better will soon realize that this is an ineffective method to gain success. Don’t let anyone bring you down and keep striving for your goals.

It is easy to be surrounded by people who are only present for their own gain. However, it is important to remember that no matter what someone else thinks of you, you are worthy of respect and love. People may want the things you possess or the services you can provide, but it is important that you remember what is truly yours. No one’s opinion can rob you of your self-worth or deny you of the fruits of your labour. You have a unique power that should never be overlooked. Do not let the noise of admiration without loyalty drown out your inner voice. Stand firm and keep pursuing your dreams no matter who stands against you. Remember, it is possible to thrive independently while surrounded by those who seek only to benefit from your success.

Remember, not everyone in your life has your best interests at heart. Examine those around you; are they here to stay or are they exploiting you? Put them to the test, rather than allowing them to test you. Consult your contacts list too; if people are only calling you when they need something, it’s easy to tell who is genuine and who is not.

Plan of Action:

1. Identify people in your life who may have motives that oppose your own

2. Do not allow their words or actions to impact your opinions of yourself

3. Utilize your contacts list to determine people’s genuine intentions

4. Stand firm and keep pursuing your goals no matter who stands against you

5. Create an environment of support where you only allow individuals who are looking out for your best interest

6. Rely on the inner voice that only you possess and trust it

7. This is your life, be cautious and wise when making decisions about who you let in

8. Keep a positive attitude and continue striving for success despite rejection or opposition

Remember:

#ItsPossibleBecauseItsDoable

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